The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

Wow! Absolutely loved this book I must say. When I got this book, I wasnt sure Id love it. I know many people recommended it but after reading the negative reviews I was a tiny bit hesitant. But I am so GLAD I bit the bullet. I recommend this for anyone interested in having a long lasting relationship and many years of a beautiful marriage, either one you are currently in or one you want in the future. These truly do seem the keys to make most marriages last for sure. Even the ways conflict is handled is EXACTLY what I been asking for and EXACTLY what I wanted to see. This is the way conflict should be handled. Another pro: the book exercises are very helpful. After reading the questions and surveys I found them extremely helpful in identifying the core issues or positives in a marriage. People don't realize you are A TEAM when you are married. Its YOU 2 first, and this book preaches that. Also the 7 principles themselves I found to be very true and reading the studies as examples were quite helpful. I also appreciate how the book provides practical examples and tips on HOW to bring up certain topics, what to say, what to do in certain marital situations. The only complaint I have about this book is it doesnt seem to go into too much when to truly call it quits in a marriage. I absolutely agree that in most cases people call it quits far too early and people end what could have been such a beautiful thing for silly reasons that can be resolved or learn to co-exist peacefully, but I will say in some fairly rare situations there are times where a marriage simply wont work. I wish the book delved into that a bit more of what are the signs that your marriage really needs to end. But I would say that is a fairly rare case and again MOST of the time it can be improved with many of the exercises and points made in the book My other gripe is that the pages are so thin that it doesnt withstand the wrath of my highlighter! I wish it was a tiny bit thicker because I have to be very gentle with how I highlight so it doesnt bleed through... and trust me, I highlighted A TON in this book. So helpful

Dr. John Gottman’s book “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is an insightful and invaluable guide that provides a beacon of hope and practical advice for couples navigating the complexities of marriage. This book delves deep into the core principles that foster strong and lasting relationships. Dr. Gottman draws upon his extensive research and clinical experience to outline actionable strategies, allowing readers to understand the dynamics within their relationship and cultivate a deeper connection with their partner. What sets this book apart is its empathetic approach. Dr. Gottman addresses common relationship pitfalls with sensitivity, offering guidance without judgment. His emphasis on communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution provides a roadmap for couples seeking to improve their relationship dynamics. Each principle outlined in the book is supported by real-life examples and exercises, making it accessible and relatable. The practical nature of the advice allows couples to implement these principles in their daily lives, fostering a more profound sense of understanding and intimacy. Moreover, the book doesn’t just focus on problem-solving; it also highlights the importance of fostering positive interactions and building a foundation of trust and respect. Dr. Gottman’s emphasis on celebrating love and cherishing the bond between partners resonates throughout the book, inspiring hope and motivation for couples facing challenges. One of the most compelling aspects of “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is its universal applicability. Regardless of the stage of your relationship, whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for years, the wisdom imparted in this book offers something valuable for everyone. In conclusion, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. Dr. Gottman’s expertise, compassionate approach, and actionable advice make “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” an essential read for anyone invested in cultivating a thriving and enduring partnership.

Love this book! My husband and I read it together. Initially because we were going through a little rough patch and my girlfriend recommended it to me. We both ended up feeling like it was useful especially to spark conversations and not feel like it was going to start a fight. I’d recommend this to anyone in a relationship. There are good exercises throughout the book that also help you understand yourself and partner better!

Good book and material, but the constant self-promotion is beyond annoying. The author spends as much time patting himself on the back for all his research and reminding us how he's so successful as he does with the actual purpose of the book. It takes far more chapters than necessary to get into the meat of the book because he first has to ensure we're well aware of how amazing his process is and his accuracy at predicting divorces. While I appreciate his research is so amazing, I'd really like to focus on the research and skip the nauseating marketing. Imagine if Mr. Beast wrote a book - although there is actually valuable substance in this book ... if you persevere.

I have read many books on marriage and meet with couples to mentor them in their marriage. I have found no better secular book to lay out how to invest in marriages that set the marriage up for success. I highly recommend this book!

the book is amazing and if you are not married to a pathological liar and covert narc, i am sure it can even help couples...easy read and excellent exercises

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Muy buen libro. Aunque esté orientado a parejas, los solteros pueden aprender mucho para cuando estén en una relación. Su contenido es útil, práctico y valioso.

Another great Gottman book that is well worth the read. Best seller for a reason. It's super good at explaining all the major issues that couples face and gives you great exercises to go through together to work on boosting/saving your marriage. I would recommend anyone in a relationship for more than 6 months to read this, especially before you get married. When you are married and have issues, this is the holy grail of books if you put the work in to actually follow it.

Nice and useful